Procrastination

After procrastinating for about 1 year this is going to be my first blog technically because I made the account on May 2010 & was delaying it since then because I didn’t had any idea how to use the blog site

Now, today my sister embarrassed me to death about me sitting idly & asked me to do something so I decided to use the blogging site & VIOLA! Within seconds I began to understand how it works

Now this one mosquito that despite of having sprayed gallons of mortein is after my blood & I don’t know why!!!!!! May be because iam from the family of Chengiz khan

Or may be because this mosquito is a Taliban disguising as a mosquito ……

So, yes back to my lovely topic of procastration ya it’s a lovely word & even the sound & sight of it makes one  feel good & one begins to sit ,relax & makes plan how to procastrate the work ……

As a student one doesn’t get ample opportunities to do it  because of the danger of getting expelled from college but yeah one gets to learn the ideas about how to do it & how to master in it without actually practicing it yeah mastering procastration with procastration

I don’t know why people seem to think it’s bad because as a famous saying goes of a famous person yap that suppose to be me

                                   * I work better under pressure* 

Then why everybody who is around you starts to panic & makes u shed your cloak of calmness & serenity .Ah ha how pleasant does its seems going there jumping the lines paying the bills & fees & you don’t have to watch any thriller to get the extra ordinary VIN DIESEL feeling you can do it yourself  by a little bit of procrastination

One doesn’t have to go the programme of * Living on the edge *  to feel the rush & sudden wave of hot blood & shivers down the spine when you look at the calendar & realize it’s the last date to fill the admission form & if are lucky enough to be  student of KU than you are fortunate &  blessed with EXTRA EXCITEMENT for your extra mundane life .You are certainly  * THE CHOSEN * one who is going to see it all the happening things in your life of a rhino ( I guess rhino also lives for about 70 years  for details watch Nat geo yourself please & don’t bug me )

However , one thing we, those who belong to the procrastination club forgets & that is  too much of it is dangerous like if u constantly procastrate about proposing to a girl or u begin to procastrate about signing the nikah papers in the wedding ceremony than it could be lethal as club members will be killed by their respective partners or if they are lucky enough the partners would leave them leaving them open to many good oppurtunities in their later life .

 I mostly have seen most of the club members belong to my beloved country ,Pakistan . We, as a  nation are famous for that .On the last days you find queues filled with all the beautiful countrymen but I wonder if they  would procastrate about having babies then the country would not be so densly populated & over crowded. If they would procastrate about spitting Pan & beetle nuts than the country would be much cleaner .If they would procastrate about doing corruption then the country would be much ahead in the ranks of  a developing countries.

Procastrate is not bad in itself if we continue to practice for the wrong things & bad deeds that are so prevalent in the country & the people of Pakistan

Social Taboos

Social Taboos

What exactly are social taboos, how are they developed and how are they nurtured by the society are some of the difficult questions to answer and hence needs a lot of digging into the history.  So, let’s keep it simple. Such concepts are actually developed by people who are not educated enough and were nurtured by naïve and innocent people.

However, if we look at the modern world, it is very surprising to see the educated and knowledgeable people follow them. They don’t oppose them, but follow them because, of the fact that they were brought up by their families with such things fed into them throughout and by saying this, I’m sure that I have put my readers into quite a difficult state.

Well, as far as taboos in our South Asian part of the world are concerned, there are a lot of misconceptions when it comes to matters in relation to girls and boys. In our society, Girls are not supposed to be friendly or get free with their male friends, just because the people might think that she has a low character and is very bold to get married into the nice, good families. If any girl is talking to a boy and become friends with him then everybody assumes that they must be having an affair. The funniest situation is when a girl sits next to a total stranger in a bus and both of them behave in really abnormal ways. The girl tries not to get brushed by the guy and even pulls her chair away and the guy eyes the girl with the corner of his eye as if she instantly is going to change into a blood sucking witch. A nice girl is also not supposed to shake hands or hug her male friends; let alone acquaintance, because it’s again considered immoral and she will be labeled as being very “out”.

The guys who behave in that socially acceptable way of giving a seat to a girl or giving their place in the bread queue (Naan Line), label themselves as being very respectful to girls even if the beat their wife at home. Bill queue will not be applicable here because of the technology factor. Have you ever wondered that when there is a ditch or a  pond full of dirty gutter water why do the guys act politely & offer girls to cross the ditch first ?

Most of the taboos are created by the fundamental Mullahs who dislike peace and love in society and constantly change their minds work on how to destroy the society. They come up with all the meaningless fatwas which the emotional and sensitive people blindly believe them. There was a fatwa against Atif aslam that his latest Bollywood song must not be heard because its against Islam and contains lyrics that are enough to make him an infidel. There was a fatwa that girls should not pick up the phone and by any chance, if they have to answer it, then they must change their voices to that of witch (Churail). In my childhood, I actually did it quite a lot on the phone calls, speaking with mad laughter in the beginning, the tiger roars and the horror music that used to come in a popular horror show, but I didn’t know why everybody used to hang up.

There are many other illogical Fatwas that these people come up with and not everybody is fortunate to have nice, open minded families. So, what exactly do we need do? I think the media has quite a significant role on this matter. We have to create awareness among the masses and take the message as to not to believe everything that they are being told by fanatic people, but instead think for themselves and try to judge things on their own. Love, Peace and Broader Outlook to the world can only bring a difference. This is just the way through which we can focus on important and primary objectives and not into some rubbish that rotates around the same idiotic questions such as Segregation in weddings, eating with Non-Muslim, Sitting with Girls, Shaking hands with them and Wearing sleeveless. It’s time that we utilize our skills and minds on much important things and spread the message of peace and love to the society.